James Middleton, Kate’s brother, recently shared an anecdote in his new memoir that sheds light on Kate Middleton’s personality, potentially countering previous narratives about her relationship with Meghan Markle. The story details the first encounter between Kate and James’s wife, Alizee Thevenet, at the Middleton family home in Bucklebury, Berkshire. Alizee, having just woken up, was wearing only one of James’s shirts when she unexpectedly met Kate, Prince William, and their three children. Contrary to expectations of formality and potential awkwardness, the interaction was reportedly warm and welcoming, with Kate quickly giving Alizee her seal of approval.
This account contrasts sharply with Meghan Markle’s claims that her casual style, including ripped jeans and a penchant for hugging, clashed with the formality of the Royal Family. Meghan suggested in the Netflix series “Harry & Meghan” that this difference in style contributed to initial friction between her and Kate.
Alizee Thevenet in Italy, showcasing a relaxed vacation style that reportedly impressed Kate Middleton upon their first meeting.
James Middleton’s memoir suggests that Kate’s acceptance of Alizee’s casual attire indicates a greater openness and flexibility than previously portrayed. This raises questions about whether Meghan’s casual style was the true source of tension between the two women, or if other factors were at play. The anecdote paints a picture of Kate as approachable and welcoming, contradicting the narrative of a strictly formal and reserved royal figure.
Meghan Markle’s ripped jeans at the 2017 Invictus Games, an outfit she claims contrasted with the Royal Family’s formality.
In his memoir, James describes the scene: Alizee, hair tousled and wearing his shirt, calmly greeted the unexpected guests, engaging in conversation with effortless ease. The children, he adds, were immediately drawn to her, asking questions with their usual energetic curiosity. The entire encounter felt natural and unforced, as if Alizee had always been a part of the family.
Alizee Thevenet and James Middleton at a formal event, demonstrating her ability to navigate different dress codes.
This easy acceptance of Alizee into the family fold was further solidified by Kate’s private affirmation to James, praising Alizee as “just great.” This seemingly small gesture carries significant weight, highlighting Kate’s genuine warmth and approval of Alizee.
Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle at a public event, a visual representation of their reportedly contrasting styles and personalities.
Prince Harry, in his memoir “Spare,” also noted the contrasting styles of Kate and Meghan, describing Kate as “done up to the nines” while Meghan was in “ripped jeans, barefoot.” This observation further reinforces the perceived difference in their approaches to fashion and potentially, to royal life. Meghan herself has stated that she deliberately chose muted colors for her wardrobe to avoid clashing with senior royals and to blend in.
Meghan Markle with Queen Elizabeth II, highlighting the Duchess’s efforts to adapt her style to royal protocols. Meghan claims she opted for neutral tones to avoid upstaging senior members of the Royal Family.
