In our house, Halloween can be tricky. My son, Michael, has autism and experiences sensory overload. Bright lights, loud sounds, and certain textures can be overwhelming. This makes Halloween, with its spooky decorations and costumes, a potential minefield. He vetoes any costume with a mask or a hat – his anti-headgear policy is non-negotiable.
One year, we dressed up as characters from “Toy Story.” Michael was Buzz Lightyear without the helmet. It wasn’t entirely accurate, but it avoided a meltdown.
Trick-or-treating can be especially challenging. The crowds, costumes, and sounds can quickly become too much. That’s where the blue pumpkin comes in. It’s a Halloween accessory that symbolises autism awareness. Michael carries one every year.
One Halloween, in a toy store filled with motion-activated decorations, Michael was on the verge of sensory overload. The store owner, seeing his blue pumpkin, turned off the scary props, brightened the lights, and spoke to Michael gently. The blue pumpkin acted as a silent signal for understanding.
The blue pumpkin isn’t without controversy. Some parents worry it might make their child a target, while others dislike the need for a label. There’s also confusion with teal pumpkins, which signify food allergies.
For us, it’s a valuable tool. In crowded situations, it silently communicates Michael’s needs, asking for patience and understanding. It’s a request for a little extra grace for a child who already feels different. It’s not about labelling; it’s about facilitating communication and inclusion.
We believe Michael deserves to enjoy Halloween like any other child. He loves collecting lollies and participating in the festivities, even if it’s for a shorter time. The blue pumpkin helps make that possible.
If you see a child with a blue pumpkin this Halloween, consider offering a friendly smile or asking about their costume. A little understanding can make a big difference. Halloween should be a time for all children to experience joy and be themselves. The blue pumpkin helps make Halloween more inclusive for children with autism.